Learning lessons the hard way. . .

Learning lessons the hard way. . .

Most of the lessons are learned when the test is over; I guess that’s the irony of life… it is so sad, I know . . . but then we always have choices.

Hurts, pains . . . why do we always have to go through all these just to learn the simplest lessons in our life?

Why do we have to shed gallons of tears just to see it was not worth it crying at all?

Why do we have to suffer doing sacrifices when we are just taken for granted at all times?

Why must we get wounded defending some people when those some are the ones causing us pains?

Why must we extend our understanding to its longest end when we are only dealing with insensitive people?

Why must we always listen to people who never stops talking about themselves and never even thought of asking what we think?

Why must we let people do things for us without letting them know what we really want?

Why must we apologize to people who have committed the sins to us?

Why do we have to feel jealous to people who doesn’t even give a damn to our existence?

Why must we continue caring to people whom we know are just playing games with us?

Why must we forgive people who don’t know what “I’m sorry” really means?

Why must we continue befriending someone who is destroying and stabbing us at the back?

Why must we continue giving light to someone who refuses to leave the darkness?

Why must we continue questioning someone who doesn’t even hear our asking?

Whether we admit it or not, we as human beings never say no to challenges. That’s why even the simplest thing to learn, we want to learn them the hard way. I guess that’s humanly understandable.

However, due to this kind of character, we sometimes forget that things also get complicated. People are hurt; hearts are torn into pieces; promises are broken; eyes shed tears;

When we realize that things are complicated, we realize to change for the better just when the situation got worse; we realize to finally correct our mistakes just when those mistakes have caused irreversible damages; we decide to prove ourselves worthy just when the person whom we want to prove our worth has decided that we are not worth it at all;




Uly Nemesis